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Wednesday, 26 August 2026
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Tuesday, 25 August 2026
“Obligation” isn’t a dirty word in a friendship
“Obligation” isn’t a dirty word in a friendshipOn what ticket sales for my live show taught me about showing up for friends’ (and your friends of friends) events.
Showing up to friends’ events —Yes, you should really try to make it there.It’s been almost a month since 200 people came to a sold-out “Dear Nina Live” in a suburb of Minneapolis to help me celebrate five years of the podcast. It wasn’t my first live show. I did a smaller one last year in Highland Park, IL, which is my original hometown, but I haven’t lived there since I graduated from high school in 1995. Still, it felt like a “safer” place to plan the first live show. In hindsight, I made that choice out of fear. The event went really well last year! (Phew!) But to be honest, I was scared to plan one in Minneapolis where I’ve lived for over 26 years. WHY? I didn’t want to obligate my friends, family, and wider community to show up for me. I was worried that people would be mildly (or majorly) annoyed at the ticket prices and at the idea of taking a summer night to listen to me talk on a stage, especially when many of them have been supporting my work in various ways throughout the years by reading my stuff, listening to the podcast, and following me on social media. (All of which I already worry is a burden and/or eye-roll inducing. I discussed that a bit at the end of episode 208 this week.) It can be exhausting to have a friend (or sister-in-law, cousin, etc.) who produces so much content! All that said, I’m happy to report I got over my fears and planned my five-year anniversary show right here in Minneapolis and that not all 200 people were personal friends and family. But plenty of them were! I was able to feel supported and held by my friends and community AND satisfied that I could sell tickets to strangers too. :) Since I was the one receiving the emails when people bought tickets, I got to experience the joy all summer of noting the generosity and support of people I know in this community. Yes, my good friends showed up for me. But so did friends-of-friends, people I don’t know well, and people I’m very friendly with, but whose ticket purchase taught me something about what showing up can feel like to the people in your orbit if you push yourself out of your routine to cheer someone on. I think I can do better on that front, and I plan to. Nobody says it better than former Dear Nina guest, Matt Ritter “known as the friendship guy.” You can read Matt’s full post on his Instagram page. The free newsletter gives you the big friendship ideas. The paid version is where I answer anonymous friendship letters with detailed responses and give you access to the growing Dear Nina Library of Friendship Dilemmas. Don’t miss Harlan Cohen on Dear Nina!Finding friendship—at any stage of life—requires the risk of hearing “no.” And that “no” rarely comes directly. That’s one of the ideas I dig into with Harlan Cohen, a New York Times bestselling author and founder of Best First Year, a college success coaching program for students and parents. So much of what Harlan teaches incoming college students and their parents applies just as much in your 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond. If you’re starting over socially, hoping to expand your circle, or just tired of feeling bruised by the ups and downs of friendship, this one’s for you.
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From the DEAR NINA FRIENDSHIP DILEMMA LIBRARYTwo (recent) anonymous letters you might have missed.
A great deal for Twin Cities readers!Let’s connect outside of this newsletter: You can find me most often in the Facebook group, Dear Nina: The Group. All the social media links are below. Instagram | TikTok | YouTube | LinkedIn | My Website You’re a free subscriber to Dear Nina: Conversations About Friendship. Curious about those once-a-month emails behind the paywall? The anonymous letters (and my answers!) come from the rawest places of friendship uncertainty. They deserve the most sensitive readers who are not going to roll their eyes, leave troll-ish comments, or make the letter-writer feel foolish for asking. If you’re willing to upgrade to this part of the newsletter, I know you’re there with the best intentions to be part of a community that’s not afraid to ask the tough questions and who will read the answers with an open heart. If that’s you, I’d love to see on the other side. :)
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