People, you need to STOP rationalizing your issues and perpetuating them.
As humans , we're able to make our own decisions on our bodies.
As someone suffering from this issue why ask if one porn is healthier than the other? Does the recovering drug addict help his recovery by smoking weed if he was doing something harsher before?
"But it's not as bad on the brain"
Give me a break. Addicts will say anything to justify that relapse. There's people on here who not only want to normalize porn in all it's aspects, but to pretend that one porn is better, or healthier than the other.
Let's set this straight: Porn is Porn. You want to be Porn free. You want to get away from porn.
No, you should not justify your usage because you went from X to Y, books to videos, BDSM to erotica. I guarantee you porn addicts and users are stuck on every kind of Porn here is.
And I guarantee you some believe they have a better grasp than the other.
The strongest person here is the one who takes this seriously.
I'm not anti masturbation. Just be an adult about this. Want to watch porn? Go for it! But by publicly rationalizing it's usage in any capacity in a community where thousands can barely go a week without PMO is toxic at worst, and misinformed at best.
You have the right to your use. Your habits and preferences are yours and you must stand by them.
When you ask "is X porn okay?" You trigger those waiting for an excuse, like yourself.
Make your move. See how you feel about your decision AFTER.
I have spoken.
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