This week’s Dear Nina guests, comedians and writers Matt Ritter and Aaron Karo, are part of what just might be the greatest group of guy friends ever. (Write to me about yours and I’m willing to amend that statement.) Each November their group travels from around the country to Peter Luger Steak House in New York to award a gigantic “Man of the Year” trophy to one of their childhood friends. A tradition that, in Matt’s and Aaron’s words, “has kept our crew going strong since the ’80s.” They spend some of the year campaigning in their group text about who is having the best year, but the vote happens in person in November. The more people who heard about their tradition, the more questions they got about these friendships, how they stayed so close for decades, and so on. A podcast was born, Man of the Year, with a mission to help men maintain closer friendships.
Obviously I needed to have Matt and Aaron on my show. But since my audience is heavily female (thank you, Spotify and Apple for those stats!), I asked them to help me tackle an often-requested topic from my mostly female audience—one I’ve been avoiding since 2016: male-female friendships. Why have I avoided that topic since 2016? You will have to listen to the episode. But you knew I was going to say that. In our 30-minute episode, we also spent time discussing something I’ve noticed on social media—people in their 20s and 30s complaining that their close friends ignore their social media posts. I usually get on TikTok to beg people not to judge their friendships this way. (Matt and Aaron didn’t necessarily agree with my take.) Intrigued? I hope so! All the ways to listen to are below. FIND EPISODE #123, “Male-Female Friendships and Liking Your Friends’ Social Media Posts” on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or anywhere else you get your podcasts.
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