Fears + Desires and our FriendshipsDo you know your Enneagram (personality) type and how your core fears and desires might impact your friendships? I understood very little about anything related to the Enneagram before my Dear Nina episode with Christina S. Wilcox, author of Take Care of Your Friends: An Enneagram Guide to Interpersonal Relationships. I still have a lot to learn!
I think I’m a 3 on the Enneagram chart? But maybe I’m a six? I only took one quiz, and honestly, all the numbers can be confusing along with terms like “wings” etc. The quiz said three, but after editing the episode with Christina and listening closely, I think I might be a six. Truly, there is so much more to this whole system than we could cover in the episode. Consider this week’s episode an introduction to the Enneagram and a reminder that each of us is wired differently through nature, nurture, and life’s ongoing experiences. Understanding ourselves on a deep level helps us become better friends to others because it reminds us how different we all are and hopefully gives us more patience and grace. The Enneagram is one tool towards that goal. FIND EPISODE #114 on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or anywhere else you get your podcasts. When you’ve hurt your friend’s feelings or a friend has hurt you
So, you’ve unintentionally hurt your friend’s feelings. Or, your friend hurt your feelings, likely not on purpose. My wise mom joins me in this replay episode about forgiveness—asking for forgiveness and wanting apologies from others. We also discussed grudges, forgiving but not forgetting, personal stories of our own pettiness and others’ pettiness, and more. FIND EPISODE #113 on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or anywhere else you get your podcasts. Articles and Other Finds About FriendshipI see so many friendship-related things, either because I find them myself or listeners send them to me. I love hearing from listeners and readers!
Books, Shows, etc. I’m Into These Days
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